If you’re single and struggling with dating, look in the mirror.
Maybe it’s your weight?
Dating is hard enough when you’re in great shape!
It's next to impossible when you're not!
Even a little extra weight can undermine your confidence.
It can also keep guys from asking you out, because most guys prefer thin, healthy women with long hair and smooth skin.
Looking for Mr. Right?
Eat less!
What a Happily Married Rules Coach Says
Women come to me for advice on how to do The Rules and be happily married.
I tell them, "You cannot chase men or tell them how to date you.
But you have 100% control over what you eat, how much you exercise, how you look and what you wear.”
I am not the kind of dating coach who says, “Do what I say,” while mindlessly munching away.
If you want a great body, a great husband and a great marriage, “Do what I do!”
Don't waste time on your therapist’s couch or buried under self-help/dating books when you should eat less, hit the gym and get out more!
Turkey in Therapy
Cracking the Man-Code
Men are visual!
Their sensitivity to beauty is instinctual, primal and uncontrollable.
Men size up a woman’s body instantly.
Women will spend lots of time writing long essays for their dating profiles--sometimes a book!
While men just scan.
Your looks are the hook!
How you look will determine how a guy treats you and whether or not he even asks you out.
Rules Girl Success Story
A recently engaged client lost 30 lbs before she met Mr. Right.
She went on a diet, worked out regularly, got a makeover and did Rules consultations as needed.
Had she not been going to the gym, she may not have met her fiance?
No, they didn’t meet at the gym.
(Her amazing story will be featured in another blog.)
But the point is, in addition to losing weight, she did all The Rules without making excuses.
And what did she get? An epic proposal!
The kind story you read about in wedding magazines.
What a Rules Relationship Looks Like
Her fiancé treats her like royalty--a princess who deserves only the best.
She gets Saturday dates by Wednesday, flowers and jewelry on Valentine’s, romantic weekend trips (she’s a true Rules Girl, no week-long trips!) and a beautiful proposal.
They just moved in together with a wedding date set this year!
After moving into their new apartment, she wrote to tell me she found a gym, yoga and barre studio nearby.
I’m so proud of her, because she understands the importance of beauty, and how diet and exercise can impact her attractiveness to her future husband.
Not to mention, her own health, happiness and marriage!
What it takes to be a Rules Girl in a Competitive World:
Dating is a competitive sport where beauty dominates.
What is required of you:
1. Dedication
2. Discipline
3. Diet and Exercise
4. Do The Rules
They are listed in this order of importance, because without accomplishing the first three steps, a woman will not be given the opportunity to do The Rules.
(While many women know this, very few actually do it.)
A Creature Unlike Any Other stands out above the crowd, because she is willing to do what the average woman is unwilling to do: diet, exercise and do The Rules.
Will you aspire to be a CUAO or be the average frustrated woman?
"My Rules Are Simple: Be Hot + Hard to Get!"
Kim Evazians
Dating Strategist | Rules Evangelist
Happily married and helping women get to the altar faster.
Available for consultations by email, phone or Skype.
To book, please submit this form: Rules Consultation
