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You know how it is when you’re up to your eyes with doing stuff, mainly for other people, and you get to the point of, ‘What about me?’ There’s not an inch of space in which to dare to be you. Great self-sabotage, eh?

Well, I’ve discovered a book that no woman should be without, ‘The Life-Changing Magic of Not Giving a F++k’ by Sarah Knight. Yup, you read right. The tag line is ‘How to stop spending time you don’t have doing things you don’t want to do with people you don’t like.’ My kind of book. Especially as it shows you how to not give a f++k in ways which don’t harm or cause offence.

What reaction did you get as you read the above? Shock, horror? That’s not how a ‘good girl’ behaves? In that case, it’s time you became a bad girl for the sake of your sanity and wellbeing.

Fear the world will come to an end if you start not giving a f++k? You’re spot on. It will come to an end to be replaced by a less restrictive, less stressful and less demanding one.

After 30 plus years of working on myself, I thought I was pretty sorted on the not giving a f++k thing. Nope! More to learn especially on not giving a f++k about what other people think of me.

Don’t tell me you’ve never succumbed to that old coconut. Loads of women stress about what someone at work, in the family, friends, neighbours, acquaintances, or even complete strangers, will think of how you look, what you say, what you do and who you are.

What would you and your life look like if you were free from all of that?

A client of mine, married, teenage children and full time job, went on strike re all domestic duties; she stopped giving a f++k. Her shocked family didn’t know what hit them at first but, as things started piling up, they began taking jobs on board. Domestic duties are now shared equally between my client and the whole family.

As a result, she has more respect for herself and from them, more me-time and, oh yes, her ongoing depression has disappeared.

I’m working on not giving a f++k about some invitations (oh those boring baby showers, work socials, family four times removed events). I’m also working on not giving a f++k about some friends and family (neurotic, controlling and self-centred for starters). And, as mentioned, not caring what they or anyone else thinks of me. Yeeehaaa!

The result is I have more time, energy and money for the things and people I do give a f++k about, including me. So could you…

Dare to be you!


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Ps I'm also now working on Step 7 of my 7 Step Dare to be You Home Study Programme... Lift off and After! All very hush hush. Release due late this year.

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